A good friend is always going to be supportive of your relationship and be there for you when things don’t follow through the way you want them to. On the other hand, sometimes a friend acts a little peculiar, or is there for your partner in times of need more than they are for you. There are a few ways to tell if your friend is trying to steal away your significant other, if you suspect they may be pining for their affection. Better yet, there are always ways to thwart their progress and remind them of who is dating who.
One way to tell what their intentions are is to, first and foremost, listen to your partner. If your partner loves and trusts you, then they will likely report back to you of any questionable things done or said by your friend. Feel free to approach the issue with both parties in a diplomatic and mature manner. It never hurts to try and talk things out before jumping to any wild assumptions or letting things fester quietly.
It may not exactly be flirtations, either, that your friend throws toward your partner. Sometimes, it’s a little more subtle. There are certain things to look for, if you suspect your friend may be interested. For instance, does your friend always want to talk about them? Does your friend give you questionable advice for your relationship that may later backfire? Does your friend seem to side more often than not with your significant other when an argument arises between the two of you? And is your friend there at the weak points of your union to help your partner rather than you? Or perhaps they say they’re helping your partner for you.
Either way, whether subtle or direct, if you sense their motives are to try and injure your relationship for their own personal gain, the best thing you can do is talk to them about it. Depending on the compatibility of personalities and attitudes, you may be able to grab your partner and friend and talk to them together in a three-way conversation. If you talk things out, but the behavior still continues, you may want to consider distancing yourself and your lover from that not-so-great friend. Give things some time to boil over during that period and see how things go on down the line.
If you find that your friend continues to disrespect you, or that their previous behavior has worsened, then it may be time to just ignore that friend permanently. Some people just don’t learn, and sometimes they just never will. No good would come out keeping negative energy around you and your relationship. Be aware that all a friend like that does is wish for you to fail so they can reap the rewards of their long-term discouragement. The bottom line is that regardless of who that friend may have been before, they are no longer a friend to you
Hi there, todays article Talk It Outhas some good advice to prevent you from breaking up. Its common sense to talk it out before things get out of control. I do know its not always easy to sit down and talk calmly about things that upset you but try to listen as much as you talk. Try to see that theres always to sides of the coin and theres also two sides of the trouble between you and your partner. You will then open up for possibilities to solve whatever bothers you before it caused to much damage to your relationship. The reality is neither black or white or wrong or right therefore its important to ease your mind a bit.
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You know your relationship is in danger when you come home and find most of your stuff sitting out on the front porch. The problem with that is that you should have known a long time before that there were problems, but you refused to accept the fact that things were going downhill. Now, every guy out there has had to spend a night or two on the sofa because of something they did, but when you find your stuff sitting on the porch, it’s usually too late for flowers or a romantic dinner to set things right again.
The thing you need to realize is that you should have been doing the flowers and dinners before you found your stuff on the front porch. Most guys think that just because they have been married for ten years or longer that they don’t have to worry about all those spur of the moment things that you used to do when you were dating. The truth is that is exactly what you should be doing, and you should make sure that it is for no particular reason as well. Doing it only on special occasions is nice, but kind of predictable.
You are going to find that if you surprise your wife from time to time with something they would expect, it will lessen the likeliness of your stuff being thrown out on the front porch. That means you won’t have to worry about sleeping on your friend’s sofa until you figure out what you are going to be doing with your life. You will also find that it will keep her on her toes trying to figure out why you are being so nice for no reason. That’s something you can use to your advantage in the next argument you get into.
The main thing you should remember is that you should never take your wife for granted. You may not understand everything that sets her off, but she is the only one that actually wanted to marry you, and because of that, you got lucky. You may think that going back to your bachelor life would be fun, but things have changed since the time when you were single and you aren’t going to find things fun after a month or so. It is much better for you to keep your wife happy than it is to be single these days.
All jokes aside, you should do everything in your power to make sure that you and your wife can talk through your arguments rather than getting into fights. Keeping the lines of communication open is extremely important to make your relationship as strong as possible, and to do that you have to talk to each other. You can’t just keep things bottled up inside you and expect your partner to understand what is wrong with you. Give your wife the benefit of the doubt and explain things in a non-defensive manner so that the two of you can talk it all out and keep your stuff from being thrown out onto the porch. I can also recommend this highly professional conversation products if you feel that you should improve your skills instead of struggling and risking your relationship.
Hello my valued readers. Todays article Lying To Each Othertell no lies;) How would our life look like if we did tell the truth all the time? I think maybe it would be easier not to cover up for lies because the truth will be obvious one day. If we are living parallel lifes and are lying to each otherabout it there will be a chance to forgivness when the truth are told. Dont be afraid to confess because its not always the end it can be a new beginning also. Its a question of how strong your relationship and love for each other are. Sometimes may hardship make you stronger and to instead living on a lie will surely make you weaker. Only you can make the right decision about these questions based on your own relationship. Reading the following article will perhaps help you.
Everyone tells a lie at some point in time during their lives. There’s no getting around it. Most likely, even George Washington and Abraham Lincoln, both known for their extreme honesty, probably lied on occasion. Of course, there’s no way of knowing how many times these men lied to their wives, but you can bet that since they were human, they did lie sometimes. When it comes to lying, it can be the thing that tears your relationship apart or it can be the thing that actually saves your relationship.
That may sound like an odd statement but it’s quite true. Yes, honesty is something that should be a part of all relationships, but that doesn’t mean that it’s ALWAYS the best policy. For instance, when you ask your husband or boyfriend if you look fat in an outfit and he tells you yes, chances are that there will be at the very least some hurt feelings. Depending on your mood, there may be a true blowout. So, you can see that if he had simply told you that you looked great, then both of you could have gone out and had a lovely evening. This is also known as “telling little white lies.” Their purpose is to keep from hurting someone’s feelings over something insignificant.
Many people are proud to be known as someone that will ALWAYS tell the absolute truth. In fact, these people will even WARN you ahead of time that if you don’t want to know the full truth, then you shouldn’t ask them any questions. That’s all well and good but, in the end, how many true friends do they actually have? Whether you like it or not, there are simply certain instances where it’s better to fib a bit than to really hurt someone by telling the brutal truth.
As with most things, though, there’s another side to this coin. Lying just for the sake of lying or keeping yourself out of trouble isn’t the best idea. This is especially true if there’s a very good chance that you’re going to be caught in your lie. Lying creates some of the worst trust issues that you’ll ever encounter in your life. If you’re in a relationship where your partner tends to lie to you, there may be other dishonest things that he does regarding you. Most likely, his lies are told because he’s trying to cover a secret affair. Of course, there are many other reasons that your partner may lie to you, but that’s typically number one on the list.
Many times, it’s difficult to know when a lie is appropriate or when it’s being used to cover up for some bad behavior. Obviously, the “bad” lies aren’t acceptable and should never be used. Instead, you should simply behave yourself or end the relationship. On the other hand, there are “white” lies that can save hurt feelings and the truth isn’t all that important anyway. It’s just up to you to figure out which is which.
Saturdays article How To Show Your Former Man That You Are A New Womangive you some really good advice on how to get on track to get him back;) Of course it can also be applied to get her back. Nothing beats self confidence combined with love. So if you are sure who your heart beats for why not give it your best shot. Aim for the stars and you will reach the highest mountain.
To Your Blessed Success
Have you loved and lost the perfect guy for you? Well, don’t shed any more tears over that tub of ice cream, because where there’s the will to get him back, then there’s a way!
Think about why the two of you broke up to begin with. Did he ever have any reasons for leaving, or at least some very common complaints about your attitude? If you remember what he didn’t like about the relationship, then you can think of ways to repair it. For instance, if you really let yourself go, then fix yourself up. If you put on some weight, diet and shed the extra pounds.
If you stopped wearing make-up as often, find an attractive bare minimum that you could toss on in no time each morning. You may decide to go with some eyeliner and mascara. A little lip gloss never hurts, either. What if you lost motivation to chase your dreams? Figure out a game plan and make some progress in what you were after. For every problem, there is a simple solution.
You just have to want your ex backbadly enough to really put in the effort. By fixing the problems in your life and on your side of the relationship, it will really show him how much he means to you. Now, if you two broke up, then there may have been something on his side of things that wasn’t completely right, either. Though the eventual break up itself may very well be, in large part, due to your behavior, don’t jump ahead and blame yourself for everything. Take some time to think if you really do want him back. Is he really the right man for you if he doesn’t love you and accept you as you are? Or did you really just lose track of yourself and what you wanted out of life? If it was you, then go ahead and work out the kinks in your life. But if it was him, take your time as a single woman to see what else is out there before making a commitment to a man that you’ve already lost.
After all of that is sorted out, what you will want to do is make a subtle point to display how well you’re doing now, and be sure to show your conviction to your current way of life, so he knows that you won’t lose luster again later. You don’t want to shove it in his face, or he’ll see you as a faker and desperate, but if you’re a little classy about how you introduce the new you, then your chances are good to spark his interest.
Finally, even if he just doesn’t want to be with you, if you stay on the course of your new and improved lifestyle, you’re bound to attract many quality suitors to your door. Grown men love a strong and beautiful woman with confidence, as you’ll find out when you become one.
Fridays article Keeping The Romance In The Relationshipis relevant in todays high tech environment. Its a lot more that can distract us from eachother then before. I think one of the most important things to do is giving attention to eachother both mentally and physically. We all need confirmation from others and especially if we are in a romance or in a relationship. This comes naturally most of the time due to the fact that we are attracted to our partner. I do think its a good behaviour to turn of the phone once in a while at special romantic occasions to give ourselves and our lover full attention.
With all of the hustle and bustle of the world today, even couples that truly love each other have some trouble finding time to keep the romance in their relationship. Career couples have to work even harder, it seems, to make time for each other. That’s why so many marriages and other romantic relationships tend to fail, even those that began so promising. Its not easy to be husband and wife these times.
If you’re in one of these hugely busy relationships, you may worry from time to time that you and your partner don’t have enough quality time together. Even if that’s true, there are ways that you can inject some of that lost romance back into your relationship. Believe it or not, none of them are costly or difficult. They’re simple and cheap, with some not costing anything at all.
Leaving little love notes for your significant other is something that couples have practiced for centuries. This doesn’t mean that you dash off an email or send off a one of those sexy, naughty ecards. It means that you take the time to write something loving, sweet, or erotic to your love on some pretty paper. Then, you add a slight spritz of your perfume to the paper and leave it somewhere that he’ll find it. This can be in the medicine cabinet of the bathroom so he’ll see it when he gets ready for work in the morning. If he has to travel for business, slip it in his luggage somewhere that he’ll find it when he checks into the hotel.
If you and your partner work in close proximity to each other, you may want to plan to meet for lunch at least once a week, or whenever it’s possible. This is a great way to just enjoy each other’s company outside of the norm. It also gives you something to look forward to that’s a little different.
Something else that you can use to spice things up a little is by taking a shower together a couple of times a week. Nothing can help a couple re-connect as much as taking turns soaping each other’s bodies and washing them. Your bodies get all slippery and that tends to spark some feelings all by itself. This can also help those really busy couples work in some spontaneous sex so that they don’t have to go for weeks at a time because they’re just too busy or too tired.
If you’ve got kids, pack them off to the grandparents a couple of nights a month; more, if the grandparents are willing. Being busy as well as parents can be very challenging, but if you’re willing to let a babysitter take over periodically, you can still be just a couple sometimes. If you happen to feel guilty about not missing your kids for a few hours a week, move past that. Keep in mind that when you’re happy, then you’ll be a much better parent. That trapped feeling doesn’t do anyone any good. So let yourself also be a person. You’ll be happier for it.
Today im sharing the article named Looking For Love.I know a good place to start looking; in your own heart. When you find that gentle and loving feeling inside yourself you want be looking for lovebecause love will be looking for you;) Im not joking. You know love is all about attraction and you will attract what you send out. Be ready and someone will be there for you sooner or later. Meanwhile prepare yourself by reading this article.
Best of Luck in Love and Life
You probably remember that really old song called “Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places.” This could describe the search that many people go on to find that elusive love that they’ve been hoping will find its way to them. There are too many people in the world that do keep trying to find love in all of the worst places they possibly could. If this is you, it’s possible that you don’t even realize you’re doing it. What you probably do realize, though, is that you keep striking out over and over again in the game of love.
Are you hoping to find that special connection with someone by indulging in bar hopping? While that almost always works when it comes to one night stands, you probably won’t find your true love in a night club. That’s not to say that it won’t ever happen, but the odds are usually not that high when it comes to long term romance and forever after relationships. It’s fun to go to out dancing and having a great time. Just keep in mind that having fun is usually all that happens in a night club.
If you’re trying to find someone to form a true relationship with, it’s good to, sometimes, get to know that person from the inside out. In that way, you can discover what sort of person he is and whether or not you’ve got anything in common. Many people choose to do this through online contact. This can be done through chat rooms as well as the explosion of online dating websites. These sites offer the opportunity for people looking for potential partners to scan personal profiles, list their own, and match up with website members that they seem compatible with. This is a method that has worked successfully in a lot of cases.
In this same vein, there are also match making companies that take charge of connecting people with those that are most compatible with each other. Of course, these companies cost a lot of money to sign on with them. For many people, though, there can’t be a price put on the chance for a healthy, loving and long term relationship. Some people save up to pay the fee so that they can join one of these services.
You can also join various clubs and community groups where others have the same interests as you. These are the very places that you’ll find someone that can end up being the one you’ve been searching for all this time. Many communities have singles events and groups that you can join so that you can interact and become acquainted with other singles that are also looking for love. This method can be more effective than those you pay for.
Just keep in mind that when you’re looking for love, pay close attention to the places you’re using to hunt. That can tell you a lot about what your chances of success will end up being.
Good Day to you this wednesday in the middle of the Christmas holiday! Todays article Are You In Love Or Obsessed is interesting! Its a thin line between love and obsession, my opinion is that when you got no respons from the one your in love with and the time goes on but you dont give up on it. It could also be an obsession with getting your ex back but with no response. Of course you should not give up easy if your in love but as time goes by you should get something back that show the love is mutual. Lets read and perhaps get some better understanding of this subject.
To Your Success in Love and Life
It should be obvious that there are basic differences between being in love or just obsessed. Sadly, that’s not always the case. Many people find themselves in relationships that they feel are loving when, in reality, it’s an unhealthy obsession. Even when these people are faced with the facts, they often refuse to admit that they’re more obsessed than in love. In fact, you may be one of those women who is obsessed than in love. So if you haven’t gone completely round the bend, following are some signs that you may be obsessed rather than in love:
You flake on responsibilities because of a chance that you’ll have of running into the object of your obsession. This includes missing work, school or other important appointments because he said he MIGHT call you, or there’s the off chance that if you stay in a certain location long enough, he’ll come in. If you’re blowing off commitments just on the chance that you’ll run into this guy, you should consider yourself to be in serious trouble. When you miss commitments just because of your obsession, you’re only going to be sorry later in life when you don’t even remember this guy’s name.
You miss out on things that you love doing just so that you can be available in case the guy you’re obsessed with decides he has time to call you or wants to see you. What you’re actually doing is putting your life on hold for another person. Now, this may be fine if you’re in a serious relationship or are married, but when this person has done nothing to show you that you mean much to him, it makes no sense for you to rearrange your life for him. You’re only missing out on a lot of fun by doing so.
Your friendships are taking a back seat to your obsession. When you’re obsessed with a guy you’re dating or one that you WANT to date, you’ll tend to ignore your friends in favor of being available for this guy even when he hasn’t called or made plans with you. Eventually, you’ll start driving your friends away from you because they understand that you don’t care much about them now.
If you notice any of these signs within yourself, please take note how far you’ve fallen down the Rabbit Hole. None of these things are even remotely normal. You’re not meant to stop living your life just in CASE some guy decides to give you a call or suddenly shows up to take you to dinner. If it’s necessary for you to always be available on the off chance that he’ll call or come by, then it’s imperative that you get some help in overcoming your obsession. This is something that could ruin your entire life if you allow it. That’s why you need to do everything possible to move past this obsession and involve yourself in a healthy relationship with someone that wants to be with you.
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