onsdag 14 maj 2014

I Caught Him Once Could He Still Be Cheating

One of the hardest things to do when you catch your man cheating on you is to forgive and take him back, assuming that he WANTS you to take him back. Sometimes these guys are almost relieved to be caught because they want out of the relationship and figure this is a sure fire way of making that happen. However, other guys don’t really want out of the relationship. They just couldn’t avoid temptation and feel that as long as the cheating didn’t “mean anything” it should all be ok with their wives or girlfriends.

Suppose you’ve already dealt with a cheating man once and let him back into your life. For a while everything has been going well. He comes home when he’s supposed to and he’s where he’s supposed to be at all times. It seems that he’s done everything possible to make it up to you and you’re starting to slowly trust him again. Suddenly, some little signs start popping up again.

His cell phone rings and he either ignores it if you’re around or he takes the call in another room. He starts setting his phone to silent when he’s home and doesn’t check calls, voice mail, or texts messages in your presence. It makes you feel that he’s hiding something from you.
Then, there’s that first night he calls and tells you he must work late. Now, he could very well be working late, but when you call him later on his work phone, he doesn’t answer even though his phone has caller ID and he can clearly see it’s you calling. Next, you try his cell phone and he doesn’t answer that, either. It’s not looking promising.

When you question him about his actions, he’s quick to assure you that you have nothing to worry about. His behavior returns to normal and you start to calm down some. You also begin to watch him less. However, he’s begun spending a lot of time on his laptop. In fact, he seems to stay on it some nights well into the wee hours. He tells you that he’s brought work home with him and that’s what he’s doing.
One day, you decide to check out his laptop while he’s in the shower. You find that he’s changed all of his passwords as well as erased any browser history. That’s kind of a red flag for a man that’s been caught cheating before. He may not be using his cell phone to communicate with other women because he can chat with them online while you’re sleeping.

It’s hard to know when signs are actually signs or if they’re really what your man is telling you they are. Broken trust has to be repaired if the relationship is going to work. So if he’s repeating past actions that make him look suspicious, it’s time to address them.

If he’s serious about rebuilding the relationship, he needs to give you all of his passwords to things, and stop hiding his calls and texts from you. By doing this, he’s showing you that he doesn’t have anything to hide and that he really wants to be back with you. On the other hand, if he wants to fight you on this, chances are that he’s back up to his old tricks and you need to make some hard decisions.

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lördag 4 januari 2014

Strengthening Your Relationship

Greetings to you all this saturday! Sad but true: these times are kind of stressful for relationship. No matter how much our technical side of life has evolved we dont seem to find any peace of mind or time to Strengthening Your Relationship. Personally i remember what me and my beloved used to do in the beginning of our relationship: we used to turn the TV off and give ourselves attention instead. Nowadays its not just TV thats disturbing the peace, its computers mobile phones and more. We just have to take control over the teachnical side of life instead of letting it control our ways of living. So lets give yourself and your relation a favour this day by turning everything off, at least for a while;)

Peace and Love to you all!!

Dick Scott

Relationships are a difficult thing to maintain these days. Just look at the world around you right now; economy is falling through the floor, people are getting laid off right and left, and nothing seems to be going in the right direction. You have probably found yourself staying late at the office every night for the last two years, and your family is starting to feel like you don’t even exist, until your paycheck comes in anyway. There are a lot of stresses out there in the world and there is a good chance that you are bringing some of the home with you.

One thing that you are going to need to do to keep your relationship as strong as it was in the very beginning is to plan one day a week where you and your partner do something fun together. It doesn’t have to be anything extraordinary or super adventurous, but it should be something that the two of you enjoy doing together. Even if that is just sitting on the front porch reading a book, the key is doing it together and spending time with each other in a calm and relaxing atmosphere.

You may consider the time you spent with each other at night, before you both fall asleep in front of the television, as time together, but you need something that lasts a bit longer than an hour or so and without the television. You don’t want to be distracted by something on the television when you are trying to spend time with each other. You should also make sure that neither one of you is on the computer, either. That has been known to cause a lot of problems in relationships, and you should always remember that no matter what.

There are a lot of things that the two of you can do to spice up your relationship so that neither one of you feel alone, even when you are together. Plan a date night and go out to dinner once a week. Sure, its sounds a bit odd, but you will be thankful that you took the time to sit down with your loved one and discuss the issues of the day with them. You might even find that it helps you relieve some of that stress that has been building up in your life and that is always a good thing.

Keeping a relationship strong is a difficult thing to do these days. A few decades ago, there wasn’t as much technology and the pace of life was a bit slower. You could sit down at the dinner table and spend the rest of the night together talking and having fun. Today, your job can become a priority in your life and you might find that work is trying to call, text, and email you at all hours of the day and night. No job is worth ruining your relationship for, and you need to fully understand and accept that in order to remain happy in your life. If you feel that its time for a change regarding your work or financial situation i can recommend this free information without any obligations…..