Dealing With Her Reaction When You Break Up

You know your girlfriend better than almost anyone else, so you may be able to predict how she will react. Some of the ways women react to being told the relationship is over is to cry, have hysterics, scream at you, throw things, and storm out. Unless you perceive that there is any chance of real violence, you just have to put up with whatever scene she causes. That's the price of breaking up.

You can't control her, but you can control your reaction to her. For instance, when she cries, you can start crying too. That will really throw her. It doesn't have to be a sloppy cry, but a tear or two might stop her in her tracks.

If she starts yelling, you can take it with stoic silence. If she wants to know why you are doing this, you can soothe her and lie.

If she doesn't say anything, don't fill up the silence with explanations. Let her finish her dinner in silence and let her leave.

Be prepared for her arguments about why you should remain a couple. She may promise anything if you will agree to stay together. But, by the time you have decided to break up, you should already know that there is nothing she or you can do to change the situation and you are both better off single.

Whatever you do, you should have a disentanglement strategy. Perhaps you can schedule an appointment for one hour after the break up meeting time. If this is an appointment that you just can't miss, you will have to walk out of there composed.

How to Tell Her

Now we get to the nitty-gritty. How should you tell your girlfriend that you are breaking up? Avoid psychobabble. She'll see right through it. Saying "it's not you, it's me" is meaningless because she is going to know that it really is her. You are not calling all women off. You're calling her off.

Be clear that you are breaking up with her and there is no room for discussion. This is a decision you have made and it requires no input or discussion on her part.

Be concise. You don't have to drag it out if you don't want to. She can cry on her girlfriends' shoulders. You are no longer her punching bag.

You may feel that you have to offer explanations, but you really don't. You are not doing her any favors by telling her that she is a nag or that you are tired of her manipulating you. It won't help her be a better girlfriend for another guy. She'll just use your words against you. And, you won't get anything out of it.

Perhaps the best line is "I don’t think we're a good fit anymore." Leave it at that and walk away if you're smart.
Ps. Whatever you say or do in the middle of a breakup it all come down to one thing. Everything we give out
we receive back; the good and the bad so before you are in the middle of a storm learn how to handle it or to avoid it by watching this!

I Want My Ex Back Girls Let Guys Be The Hunters

Do you find yourself saying “I want my ex back”?  Do you feel like something is missing because he’s not around?  Do you feel lonely as a single person.  Well, this article is for all you gals who say I want my ex back.

First of all, do not, whatever else you do, chase him.  Men are supposed to be the hunters.  When you chase him, it actually makes you a lot less attractive.  You need to seduce him with your feminine wiles which have nothing to do with the chase.

In fact, he needs to chase you.  That’s what men do.  Men hunt, women choose.  When you get this through your head, you will begin to understand how to get him back.

So, start by analyzing what brought you together in the first place.  What was it that he saw in you that was so appealing?  Do a harsh assessment of yourself.  Have you gained a few pounds, done something stupid with your hair, or changed the way you dress?  All of these things could have an impact on how he sees you.

When you say I want my ex back, you are bringing another person into your life.  When he asked you out, you were a single person.  But as you started dating, you became a couple.  In the process, you probably gave up some hobbies, friends, or activities.  In short, you changed.  You stopped being the girl he initially dated.  He may have become bored with the new you – the you that you changed into for him.  One way to get him back may be just to take up the old you so that you are appealing again.  And then, don’t change this time.

Another thing that could have happened was that he really liked you without knowing you.  You were mysterious.  But, as you became a couple, he found out things about you that he didn’t like.  Perhaps he found out that you swear, and that goes against what he thinks is appropriate for his girlfriend.  Think about the things that he harped on you about.  If you are really saying I want my ex back, consider making the changes he asked for.

Once you have all of the pieces in place – you are the girl he really wants – then you have to seduce him.  But doing this is counterintuitive.

Remember – he likes the chase.  So, give him one!  Go somewhere that he often goes and barely acknowledge him, but flirt outrageously with all of the other guys.  If some guy makes a move, be sure to get cozy.  Your ex boyfriend may confront you – or the guy – about this.  Remind him that you are no longer his girlfriend and he doesn’t have a say.  You can even start dating one of his friends so that he will want to chase you down.

Once the hunter gets his juices riled, he will want to come after you.  At that point, it is up to you to keep him interested by being the girlfriend he really wants.  That way you won’t be saying “I want my ex back” again!
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