Dont Let Facebook Destroy Your Relationship

Todays article Dont Let Facebook Destroy Your Relationship is relevant for most of us because we do spend more and more time online and it could spoil a relationship. Giving our partner attention is very important. Giving each other time without television, computer and phones are highly recommended in order to keep the passion alive.

Social networking has become the all the rage in recent years and Facebook seems to be at the top of the chain, surpassing the once very popular MySpace. Now, it seems that everyone and their grandmother has a personal Facebook page. Many people also set up pages on Facebook to get the word out about their businesses. There’s almost nothing that you can’t find on Facebook.

While there are many great aspects of Facebook, there’s one really negative one. People get addicted to being on Facebook. They like to read the updates and look at photos of their friends. There are also various types of games that are designed to be addictive and draw in the members of the network. It’s also easy to stalk your ex as well as other people for different reasons. The only thing that will possibly stop you from being able to check up on what others are doing anonymously is through the different levels of security that members can attach to their pages.

Dont Let Facebook Destroy Your Relationship

The thing about Facebook that can destroy relationships is the same very addictive quality that draws people to it. Games found on Facebook are the worst when it comes to addiction. That’s not to say that playing them isn’t a lot of fun, because it really is. The problem comes in when someone is so addicted to playing these games that they refuse to get off of the computer. Too many people find it easy to spend hours and hours at a time on the Facebook site playing all of the various games that they’ve become involved. This include those that are in romantic relationships. Instead of spending time with their partner, they’re sitting glued to the computer playing their favorite games. Their partner, on the other hand, is sitting alone watching television or reading a book. Worse yet, they may even be sleeping alone while Facebook gets in the way of having a romantic night.

Another thing that people really need to do is stop checking their Facebook page while out on a date with their partner. There are few things ruder than interrupting a dinner conversation to check your cellphone when it dings with another update. Of course, once you read the update, it’s got to be responded to, which can lead to other updates, and so on. If you’re in the habit of doing that when you’re supposed to be spending the evening with your partner, don’t be surprised at all to finally look up from your phone to find that your partner has left and you’re sitting all alone. Well, you and your phone, anyway.

If you’re one of those Facebook addicts, you may want to re-think things because, if you don’t, your relationship could fall victim to this addiction and you’ll find yourself all alone. No one is going to put up with playing second fiddle to a social networking site, and the sooner that soaks in, the better your relationship will become.

Thanks for reading through todays article Dont Let Facebook Destroy Your Relationship and i wish you the best with your relationship!

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Article 2 In a Series of Articles on Balance Your Friends and Lover

Let Your Love Meet Your Friends

So, since your friends and love are important, you want them to continue to be important parts of your life.

One way to handle this is to make sure that your friends and your love get together.  It may be awkward to have a guy’s night and bring your girl along or vice versa.

Therefore, plan an event where he can bring his friends and you can bring yours.  A backyard Barbeque is an excellent way to do this.

Make sure that you specifically introduce your love to all of your friends.  Encourage them to spend time together.

At the same time, encourage your friends to mix with your love’s.  If anybody hooks at the party, that’s a bonus.

But, there are other ways to get your friends and love together.  Try holding a seated dinner party with a handful of friends and their dates. 

If most of your friends belong to a organization of some sort (church group, writing circle, alumni group), take your new love to an event that requires an escort. 

Also, you can introduce your new love to your friends one by one or in very small groups. 

Remember as well that three’s company too.  It’s okay to invite your friend and your boyfriend out for brunch or drinks.  You don’t always have to pair everyone up every time.

Whatever you do, don’t overwhelm him or her with new faces that they’ll have to incorporate all at once.

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When Your Friends Don’t Like Your Love

What should you do when your friends don’t seem as taken with your new love as you are? 

First of all, you should listen to them.  They may see something that you don’t.  It might not just be jealousy.

For instance, your friends may see you repeating a pattern that is bad for you by falling for the same kind of guy or girl that always hurts you.  Or, they may know something about his or her past that they’re not ready to come right out and tell you.

But this isn’t necessarily the case.  They may just be jealous that you are no longer spending 100 percent of their time with you.  This may be especially true with friends who have difficulty attracting dates themselves.  You should have compassion for those people.

But you need to be able to stand up for your new love.  You are obviously attracted to this person for reasons that your friends may not understand.  He may be shy and they don’t see the brilliant sense of humor that only comes out when he knows someone well.  Or, you may find something special in your new man or woman which your friends lack.  Because they don’t understand why this is important to you, they man not appreciate in your new love.

Remember, your friends are entitled to their opinions.  You should listen to them.  But, you shouldn’t let their opinions run your life. Tomorrow we will continue with Article 3 In a Series of Articles on Balance Your Friends and Lover.