by T Dub Jackson
Cheating on your husband is one of those things in a marriage that is very hard to come back from. You may be asking "how do I convince my husband to try again after I cheated on him?" but it's unlikely that the answer is exactly falling into your lap. The reason is that there are no easy answers.
This is what's happening in today's time; maybe because there are reasons why these all happen like the Internet advancements or the work we are doing that eats out the time for our family. Most spouses must juggle careers, cars, bills, the kids, failing economy and just about anything that life throws their way. It's for this reason that many marriages are unable to last and couple forgets who they are and why they married each other and simply grows apart.
Just relax for a moment. Calm down yourself before doing the move. Usually, right after the break up, emotions are running wild. You can't control it. The urge to get in your ex's face and plead your case is extremely strong. After the anger comes the sadness and regret.
There are a few things you can do that will have him asking you for a second chance if you're willing to work very hard to make it seem like it's his idea. In some relationships, that will make all the difference in the world because he would never go for it if he believes it is anything other than his idea.
Doing some deep thinking will help you focus and maybe you will be able to pin point one or more things that caused you and your lover to split. Back off from the situation a little bit and live as normal as possible.
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Keep the stuffs that remind him for the meantime. You can divert your focus in some other things that matters you most. You can play online games or surf the net but never access his social networking accounts or drop a message in his email address.
Don't write, call, text message, email, or leave a voice mail message on his phone. Don't drive by his work. Don't hang out in places where you are likely to run into him. Be conspicuously and completely absent from his life for a while.
There are few things that need to be considered. It's definitely not the end of everything. You can start communicating with him by sending a short message in his email or in his social networking account.
You can send him a short message like how are you. If he replies, it means that he's not mad at you and he's still recognized you as his former partner. But is he doesn't don't be upset. You can now start dig into details just like you're the one courting him.
After a certain amount of time has passed it is time to show your hand. Make your presence known and gauge his reaction for yourself. You can only avoid him for so long before you both need the closure that only meeting face-to-face can provide.
No matter how much you know you hurt him you should know that you wouldn't be able to hurt him like this if he didn't love you. This means that the odds of you being able to get your ex husband back are better than average.