All Women Are A Little Bit Crazy!
by Bob Alexander

All women are a little bit crazy, some more so than others, so if you’re going to have a relationship with a woman or marry one until death, it’s best if you resign yourself to living a long and happy life with a nut case. Remember, one of the things that made you fall in love with her was cute at the time, but it's what you dislike about her later.

The love craziness doesn’t have to manifest itself in large amounts, but as the male partner in a marriage, it’s enough to make me want to climb the walls. Here is how I have learned to tolerate and even learned to enjoy her small lapses of sanity:

I’ve learned to keep quiet if the conversation gets heated. I used to think I just had to have the last biting word of an intense disagreement.

I felt that it was very important to know how I felt. Rarely are there fights that ever get truly settled by having the last word. Frankly, she probably doesn’t care at the moment about how I feel. I try to be a better man than she is and casually walk away. You try this solution, and you will feel better about yourself and bring rationality to a fretful situation.

One of the things my wife does that make me grind my teeth is that she never answers a question with a simple yes or no answer. In my experience this little quirk is not exclusively a female problem. Men who know better, think nothing of spinning a yarn about nothing in order to evade a yes or no answer. You expect that kind of answer from a politician, but not from your partner in life.

Watching television together is always a challenge for me. As soon as a scene ends and a commercial is about to begin, my wife turns off the sound. The mute button on our two month old TV is almost worn out already. It is definitely not all bad; I have learned to read lips!

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She doesn’t like commercials because she says they hurt her ears. She has very sensitive hearing. It is a fact that many commercials, especially automobile ads come over the air louder than the programs they are sponsoring. To someone who thinks that many commercials are better than the shows they have bought into, it’s a tragic turn of events.

There is a way to combat the craziness of women, but it requires some discipline on the part of the one who is on the receiving end of said craziness. Most of the time my wife doesn’t even recognize when that instant arrives when she shifts from the serene state of sanity to the vicious user of sarcasm. Sarcasm only heats up an argument, so do your best not to fan the flames by using it yourself.

If the woman or man doesn’t realize they have slipped the bonds of rationality, then no amount of persuasion or arguing will convince them they are not behaving sensibly. The result of this is that you are not going to win the argument. Any attempt to do so will just escalate that disagreement into a full-fledged battle.

Take it from someone who has had years to analyze and decipher the intricacies of the female mind, I can truly say that I’m not naïve enough to say that I understand it. Anyone foolish enough to say they understand women is definitely someone you wouldn’t want to buy a used car from.

The challenge for all of us is to love your partner and keep your mouth shut when the craziness begins.

Bob Alexander is a son of the south. He has gained expert status in eating barbeque, telling fishing stories and leisure living. He has also become somewhat of an expert at affairs of the heart. Visit his site at: www.redfishbob.com

Bob Alexander is a son of the south. Besides having great knowledge in the workings of the female mind, he has gained expert status in eating barbeque, telling fishing stories and leisure living.

Visit his site at: http://www.redfishbob.com

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Bob Alexander is a son of the south. Besides having great knowledge in the workings of the female mind, he has gained expert status in eating barbeque, telling fishing stories and leisure living.

Visit his site at: http://www.redfishbob.com

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Surviving the Immediate Future

Once you get past the initial shock of the break up, you will still have a period of mourning.  During this time, you have to toughen up.  While you may have been able to indulge your self for a short time, now it is time to adjust to the new reality.

Take good care of yourself.  While having a pint of Ben and Jerry’s felt good right after the break up, developing good eating habits is important now.  You should also be exercising regularly.  The endorphins that your body produces when you exercise will help improve your mood.

Don’t be afraid to cry when the mood strikes you.  You are going to have ups and downs.  But, don’t give in to a chronic state of depression.

Forgive your ex.  At some point, you will have to forgive your ex for breaking your heart.  You will also have to forgive him for any actions he took during the relationship which hurt you.  The longer you hold anger toward him, the longer it will be before you can exit the break up mentality.

You should also ask him for forgiveness for any of the hurt you caused in the relationship.  This will allow you to cleanse.

Go out – even when you don’t feel like it.  This can mean going out with your friends for social things.  But it can also mean going out on dates with a new person.  While you don’t want to enter into a hot and heavy rebound relationship, going out on dates will allow you to see yourself as an attractive catch.  It will boost your self esteem at a time when you really need it.  Go out on a date with someone you are not likely to fall in love with.

Socialize with your friends and reconnect with people who you have let go of.  Many times, a relationship dominates our lives and our other friends get squeezed out without us even knowing it.  Go through your address book or email list and find people you haven’t talked to in a few months.  Set up a time to go out for coffee.

Take up a new hobby or interest.  If you always wanted to try toll painting, take a class.  If your ex was a couch potato but you like the great outdoors, join a hiking group.  Not only will your new activity take up some of the time left vacant from the termination of the relationship, you will also have the chance to meet new people.

Think about getting out of town for a few days.  The change in scenery could be good for your soul.

You can also get a new hairstyle or do a wardrobe makeover.  You don’t have to consider his preferences any more.  It may be a good time to reinvent yourself.

Remember that healing takes time.  You are going to have good days and bad. 

Figure out what you were supposed to have learned from the relationship and then apply that to your life in the future.

Finally, believe that your ex did you a favor in the long term when he called it off.  Your true soul mate is still out there waiting for you.

In the long term, you will begin to compartmentalize the experience.  Your ex will become just another boyfriend.  That will be one part of your life, but you will have many other parts.

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