Dont Let Yourself Be A One Night Stand

Hi everyone! Todays article is about finding a balance between passion and a lasting relationship. Your passion can take you to heaven but within a happy relationship you can stay there. So while im a shy guy i had one eye closed while reading through todays article;) but open both your eyes and your hearts and you will find a love that lasts. I dont say its wrong with a short romance as long as noone is hurt by it but i think we all need and long for that love that last both through good and bad times.

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One night stands have been indulged in ever since men and women realized that sex is fun. The thing about these one night stands is that they’re usually fast, simple, fun and have no strings attached. There’s another thing about them that many people don’t fully understand until they’ve had one or more. One night stands can be very unfulfilling and leave a huge black hole in your emotions. This is the reason that, if you’re looking for more than just sexual release, you’re going to want to avoid them at all costs. In short, don’t let yourself become a victim of one night stands.

As many nightclubs are pickup scenes, unless you stick to those places “where everybody knows your name,” you probably don’t want to get too heavily involved in going out to them. The exception would be if you’re going out with friends or you have a date. Then, it can be fun to hit some of the larger clubs for drinks and dancing. If you go alone, however, you’re putting out signals that you’re looking for a quick hookup that can only lead to a one night stand.

It seems that men enjoy these encounters more than women, although there are plenty of women that aren’t interested in long term attachments. These women tend to go out deliberately to find men that are willing to have that fast encounter and then be on their way. Whether women like it or not, they’re more at risk of becoming victims if they’re not careful. So the location of the encounter can be anywhere from a stall in the restroom, the back seat of a car, or up against a wall in a back alley. It’s very unwise for a woman to take a stranger home for sex or to go to his place.

Something else you may want to think about when it comes to safety is that there are still various sexually transmitted diseases that you don’t want to catch. While none of them are pleasant, many can be treated and even cured. There are a couple of them that won’t kill you, but they’ll never go away. Then, you need to remember that at least one can kill you. Not everyone is going to be responsible enough to use protection during these encounters. So that’s definitely something to think about.

If you’re not someone that really wants to make a lifestyle of one night stands only, then you need to take precautions and ensure that doesn’t happen. Don’t put yourself in positions where you may be tempted to engage in one. Put that energy and effort into finding the right dating site or company that will help you meet someone that wants the same things as you do. Always remember that a one night stand isn’t going to bring you the relationship that you want. Anytime you feel particularly needy, it’s much safer to keep your nightstand drawer outfitted with just what you need. In that way, you won’t be risking your life or your self-respect.

To Your Success in Love and Life because you are worth it!

Dick Scott

Best Ways To Get Her Back: Dating A Comedian

Todays article Dating A Comedian covers a serious subject;) humor are very important because it learn us to see things in a different perspective. It also improve our communication to have a positive and happy attitude, and that also draw people towards us. So be glad if you got humor and give everyone your smile and im sure they will smile back to you.

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Many women find that men with a sense of humor are amazingly fun today. They also find this to be very sexy because laughter definitely makes you feel good. It’s true that a good sense of humor is very desirable in someone that you’re in a relationship with. Otherwise, it can be rather morose situation. That’s the positive part of being with someone that likes to make jokes, pull pranks and laugh all the time.

On the other hand, if you’re with someone that feels he’s got to be the court jester 24/7, it can become an eventual problem. Most women enjoy having some heart felt conversations with their men once in a while; some more than others. Women that are with full time comedians will find it a challenge to have these types of conversations because their men will always be trying to find something funny to say. So while you’re sitting there telling this man how much he means to you and how you love him with all of your heart, he just may come out with some really insensitive comment like “So just how big is your heart?” That can be a real issue if he doesn’t ever have the ability to be serious and romantic. A sense of humor is great, but it can also be too much of a good thing if he doesn’t know how to dial it down a little.

Then, there are the men that love pulling pranks. You start to become afraid to turn your back on him because of what he may do. For instance, he may drop something on purpose knowing that you’ll bend over to pick it up. While you’re in the bent over position, you’ll suddenly feel a wooden spoon trying to find its way up your posterior. You most likely won’t find that funny, but he will doubled over with laughter at how you looked when you jumped straight up and screamed. That’s just an example of the many types of pranks that a jokester can come up with to play on you at the drop of a hat. Some of them are even more elaborate.

Laughter is definitely great medicine and is a good way to stay healthy, but it’s not so healthy when you’re pissed off at being laughed at all the time. There are certainly times in life that aren’t going to be funny. For instance, if your dog is run over by a car, you’re going to be very upset. Your comedian boyfriend may find the way the dog flew up in the air at the point of impact something to laugh about. Ok, if he does that, there’s something seriously wrong with him and you need to drop him immediately.

The thing is, unless you’re somewhat of a comedian yourself, then you probably aren’t going to have a successful relationship with someone like this. Laughter is a great thing, but there are definitely times when it’s not either appropriate or necessary. Unless your guy knows the difference, he’s probably not the one for you.

Article 3-4 In a Series of Articles on Balancing Your Friends and Lover

How to Treat His or Her Friends

Tell your new girlfriend or boyfriend that you would love to meet his or her friends because they're so important to them. Just as you would like your partner to meet and like your friends, you should show an interest in meeting theirs.  Of course, everyone needs their space, but it's always a good idea to join each other's group of friends once in a while.

Suggesting a night out with his or her friends is a great way to prove that you're not a threat to them, and that you want to be familiar with that part of their life. This can be anything from dinner with her friends and their respective dates to a get-together at your place with your man and his closest friends can work wonders, and score you some much-deserved bonus points in the process.

When you do finally meet the friends, show a sincere interest in them. Ask questions about where they're at and what they're up to, and ask them about their interests.

For extra brownie points, next time you run into them, ask them for an update of whatever they were talking about such as how a job interview went or how the trip to London was. This requires that you actually listen when you are talking to his or her friends, so be on guard! Even a simple, "tell Julie I say hello" to your girlfriend can get you on your significant other’s good side.

When You Don’t Like Your Love’s Friends

You are not always going to like all of your significant other’s friends.  In fact, you may not like any of them.

It's not the ideal situation when this happens, but it's important to remember that you're going out with your girlfriend or boyfriend, not their friends.

Do not badmouth them or insult them.  Do not involve your love. Do not be rude to them if you happen to see them.

Simply try to separate your relationship from his or her friendships, and suck up whatever dislike you feel during important events of your partner’s life, like her birthday, promotion, or your wedding.

Girl’s & Guys Nights Out

You won’t be spending 100 percent of time with either your partner or your friends.  In fact, making sure that you have time for girl’s or guy’s nights out is quite important in any relationship.

In addition to having time with your friends, you need to respect your love’s need for time with his or her friends. 

If your partner asks to join you on your night out, consider asking him to get a group of his friends together to meet you for drinks at the end of the evening.  Don’t let him intrude on the time you have set aside for your friends (and vice versa).

If she does absolutely insist on going to your weekly poker game, you may have to give in.  But, don’t cater to her just because she’s there.  In fact, try to make the whole experience as boring for her as possible.  That way, she won’t ask again and you’ll have your guy’s time secure.

If your love is somewhat suspicious about what you do with your friends, let them know where you’ll be and when you’ll be home.  Drop a quick text or phone call if things change.  While some people might consider this controlling, you can deter a lot of fights by just keeping the other person informed and not suspicious.

One final thing, if you have a fight before you are scheduled to go on a girl’s or guy’s night out, sort out the issues and clear the drama before you leave home.  You don’t want the evening with your friends to be disturbed by an upset partner, and you don’t want to go home to yet another fight.

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Focus On the One You’re With

One thing that will help you develop and maintain strong relationships with both your friends and your partner is to laser focus on the person or people you are with at the moment. 

When you are on a date, turn off the phone or train your friends to only call in an emergency.

If you are with your friends, ask your love to respect that time as well.

Only talk about your friends or love as it is appropriate in the conversation.  Don’t make your friends listen to long descriptions of your undying love.  Don’t make your partner delve into all of the details of a good gossip.

Respect that your friends and your partner are different and they need different things from you.  While they will naturally be curious about each other, don’t overwhelm them with details from your “other life.”

Don’t Make Him Into One of the Girls or Her Into One of the Guys

It is important to understand that a girlfriend is, at her core, a girl and a boyfriend is a guy.  It’s not to your advantage to turn him into “one of the girls” or her into “one of the guys.”  You should appreciate the masculine or feminine traits they offer.

For instance, if a guy wants his girlfriend to be “just one of the guys,” he’ll force her to take on roles she’s not suited for.  Instead of having time with your real guy friends, you’ll be placing her into it.  You’re better off watching March Madness with your guy friends than insisting that your girlfriend who doesn’t like basketball, watch with you.

Similarly, a woman shouldn’t try to force her boyfriend to be “one of the girls.”  No, he doesn’t like shopping and probably doesn’t want to have long gossip sessions with your friends.  You should appreciate him for that.

While it’s okay for your significant other to be your “best friend,” you shouldn’t expect them to change genders for you.

Turn Her into a Matchmaker

This is one section that works better for men than women.  The idea is for a guy to set up his girlfriend as his “wing woman.”  A Wingman is a guy you bring along with you on singles outings (like to bars) who can help you out with women.  Your girlfriend can play wing woman for your friends in these situations.

One way to balance your friends and your girlfriend is to plan outings with both parties. For example, try taking your girlfriend with you when you go out to the club with the guys. Turning her into a wing woman can be a great opportunity for friend-girlfriend bonding. Your girlfriend can actually be an asset for your friends in the pickup game. Single girls will feel more comfortable talking to your male friends if there's a woman in your group. Also, the sight of your friends talking comfortably with your cute girlfriend is sure to trigger a single girl's competitive nature.

Your girlfriend will enjoy these outings too because women can't resist playing matchmaker. She'll also be happy to lend a hand to your friends because, generally, girlfriends want your male friends to find girlfriends. When your friends start pairing up with girls, they're less threatening to her as you can start doing things like double-dates (instead of having them steal you away to prowl for women). Turning her into a wing woman is a win-win situation.

Alternatively, she can play match maker for your guy friends.  Women like nothing better than to “set people up.” 

Let her try to arrange dates for your friends.  Your friends will appreciate having someone with their interests at heart match them with beautiful single girls.  It’s much better than trying to hook up with a girl at a bar.