5 text messages guaranteed to get your ex back in your arms...

Happy Monday!

Making love grow OR regrow is a lot like

growing a flower.

Begging the flower to grow...

Pleading with it to grow...

Even trying to "bribe" the flower to grow with your body:-)

Just leaves you feeling frustrated and hopeless.

So how DO you get a flower to grow?

How DO you get love to grow OR regrow?

You plant a seed in fertile soil.

You make sure it gets fresh water and a little sunshine...

And with a little patience, as sure as night follows day...

You'll start to see it blossom...

===>These 5 Text Messages Plant The Seed For You

No begging.

No pleading.

Grows love predictably.

I Caught Him Once Could He Still Be Cheating

One of the hardest things to do when you catch your man cheating on you is to forgive and take him back, assuming that he WANTS you to take him back. Sometimes these guys are almost relieved to be caught because they want out of the relationship and figure this is a sure fire way of making that happen. However, other guys don’t really want out of the relationship. They just couldn’t avoid temptation and feel that as long as the cheating didn’t “mean anything” it should all be ok with their wives or girlfriends. 

Suppose you’ve already dealt with a cheating man once and let him back into your life. For a while everything has been going well. He comes home when he’s supposed to and he’s where he’s supposed to be at all times. It seems that he’s done everything possible to make it up to you and you’re starting to slowly trust him again. Suddenly, some little signs start popping up again. 

His cell phone rings and he either ignores it if you’re around or he takes the call in another room. He starts setting his phone to silent when he’s home and doesn’t check calls, voice mail, or texts messages in your presence. It makes you feel that he’s hiding something from you. 
Then, there’s that first night he calls and tells you he must work late. Now, he could very well be working late, but when you call him later on his work phone, he doesn’t answer even though his phone has caller ID and he can clearly see it’s you calling. Next, you try his cell phone and he doesn’t answer that, either. It’s not looking promising. 

When you question him about his actions, he’s quick to assure you that you have nothing to worry about. His behavior returns to normal and you start to calm down some. You also begin to watch him less. However, he’s begun spending a lot of time on his laptop. In fact, he seems to stay on it some nights well into the wee hours. He tells you that he’s brought work home with him and that’s what he’s doing. 
One day, you decide to check out his laptop while he’s in the shower. You find that he’s changed all of his passwords as well as erased any browser history. That’s kind of a red flag for a man that’s been caught cheating before. He may not be using his cell phone to communicate with other women because he can chat with them online while you’re sleeping. 

It’s hard to know when signs are actually signs or if they’re really what your man is telling you they are. Broken trust has to be repaired if the relationship is going to work. So if he’s repeating past actions that make him look suspicious, it’s time to address them. 

If he’s serious about rebuilding the relationship, he needs to give you all of his passwords to things, and stop hiding his calls and texts from you. By doing this, he’s showing you that he doesn’t have anything to hide and that he really wants to be back with you. On the other hand, if he wants to fight you on this, chances are that he’s back up to his old tricks and you need to make some hard decisions. 

The Secret you need to know to get your lover back! From the man that has helped over 50 000 people in 77 countries to get back together again!

Dating With Children around.

How many times have you found the perfect woman or man to go out with, but you weren’t able to get a date because your babysitter couldn’t come over and watch your kids? You would never guess the amount of people that have to give up any chance of happiness because they can't find someone to watch their children so that they could go out on a date. The sad truth is that there are a lot of single parents out there that would love to find someone to share their life with, but have a hard time finding a reliable babysitter.

Well, there are a couple of things that you can do to get around this little issue. Now, no one is blaming their kids because they can't go out on dates. Not only is that wrong from a moral standpoint, but it’s just bad parenting if you think it’s your kids’ fault. You have to understand that you have a responsibility to your children and they should always come first no matter what. That doesn’t mean you have to give up dating all together, though. You can still go out and have some fun. You just need to know how.

The first thing you should do is try a babysitter. If you have a regular babysitter, then ask them if they can watch the children for you so you can go out for a date. If they have other plans, offer to pay them extra if you can. Usually the extra money will be sufficient enough for you to get your date planned out. Of course, that plan doesn’t always work out for you and you will need to try something else. You can always ask your family if they can watch your kids for you.

Grandparents love to babysit because it gives them the chance to spoil your children rotten and then send them back home. If you are lucky enough to have your parents living close by, you can ask them if they would be willing to watch the little ones for a bit while you go out. Resorting to family members for babysitting is a great way of letting your children spend more time with them as well. Everyone wins in that type of a situation. But what if you don’t have family nearby that can help or they just aren't able to help you out at that specific time?

If you can't get a babysitter and your family can't watch them for you, then you only have one option left. You have to figure out a date that you can include your children on and make sure that the person you want to date is willing to give it a shot. Not only will this give you time to get to know this person, but it will allow your children to get to know them better as well. Anyone that isn’t willing to go on a date with your children probably isn’t someone you want around them all that much anyway.

Why Avoid Online Dating

With dating being such an exercise in stress these days, there are more reasons than ever to jump online and sign up with a few of the reputable online dating websites. Yes, you’ll probably tell yourself anything to keep from having to take this step. You think that you’re too busy, or you just don’t want your information so public, or you would just rather meet someone naturally rather than “force” it. Maybe you’ve already given it a quick shot and it just didn’t work out for you. 

Ok, now that you’ve come up with all of the excuses in the world to not do this, it’s time to make a list of some great reasons that you should do it. First of all, if you’re really so busy that you can’t find the time to set up a dating profile, then you probably need to either just not worry about dating at all, or maybe drop some of your commitments. Seriously, when you’re too busy to date or have a social life, then you need to cut back on some things. Remember that little adage that starts out with “All work and no play?” It’s sure to make you a dull person and no one wants to date dull people. 

As for wanting to meet someone “naturally,” everyone would love it if that were to happen. The problem with that is this is just not something that happens all the time these days. Most people meet their dating partners through mutual friends or just bouncing around online in various chat rooms and communities. Granted, there are those couples that meet at church, at bars or clubs, at the post office, the Laundromat, the supermarket, or anywhere else where people may go on a day to day basis. It’s just that not everyone you meet in those ways will work out. 

The thing about online dating websites is that they’re usually set up so that people with things in common can easily find each other as well as communicate. If you’re someone that doesn’t want to put all of your information online, simply be selective about what you decide to put into your dating profile. No one has stated that you must put absolutely everything out there for just anyone to read. All you need to do is build your profile in a way that you’ll only attract the type of potential dates that will interest you. 

These days, there are so many more reasons to look into online dating websites than there are to not do it. If you have tried it before and it just wasn’t all that successful, don’t let that stop you. Get some advice from friends that have enjoyed some great experiences with it. They’ll probably be quite happy to assist you in building just the right profile so that only the types of people that you would find fascinating will be drawn to contact you. Then, you can go from there regarding whether or not you’ll reply, ignore the contact or eventually set up a date. It really is just that easy!